I don't know how to define what's INFJ about this, but you can't imagine the future without the person who will fill it with you and irrevocably 'make you new'. You can't go wrong with an INFJ. However, the INFJ has to be the initiator since the INTJ can be more introverted. They tend to be calm, a little reserved and quietly confident. I’m INFJ and have been for about 3 years now with consistent testing and I’ve just wondered, how would an INFJ interact with others if they were truly evil? Palpatine was an example I was given and Adolf Hitler and I don’t read much into the latter. INFP's are a lot less precise then INFJ's and can be themselves a lot easier in the moment. I was sure that she wasn't INFP and probably the first one who think she's INFJ and recently she re-tested into INFJ. 39 votes, 15 comments. He’s an ACTUAL pro at things which keeps my ego in check ๐๐) wants his license and we took a commuter plane a few years ago and they let him sit up front with the pilot. This is so spot on!! As an INFJ male, this sums up 99% of my experience with both the ESFJ & ENFP types. I don't even totally balance my checkbookclose enough is close enough. They simply tell there can be a lot of miscommunication b/w both the types. My Reddit is being a bit of an annoyance and not letting me see comments right now, so I'm sorry if you already know this: INFJ-T isn't real. If both the INTJ and INFJ are mature we just click. Here is a link to the INFJ Wiki where you can find some resources. As an INFJ you're sensitive, set high standards and have strong principles and values than the rest of us :) I learn a lot from INFJ's you keep me humbled and INFJ's enjoy being around me because I'm fun to be around, enjoy deep, meaningful conversations and I help them come out of their dark side. I have vibes with them at working with the one so have met in the wild anyway. You can watch a ton of videos talking about the INFJ stare or our eyes. " - Someone will comment, "OMG! So sick of hearing INFJ's circle jerk about their f**king eyes! Everybody has eyes!" Help! I lost my INFJ in a bookstore/coffee shop/similar venue! Your INFJ is probably hiding from other humans, or engaging in a deep conversation with an old man. Keep it up! I’m growing. no original thoughts, no quirks, it’s like they have a list of socially acceptable opinions or tripes and just run on auto-pilot. I only said it because with my ex girlfriend who was entp, the only way I finally was able to move on was because she allowed me to stay this time while still keeping her distance. Turns out she's most likely an ENFP 2w3 - I considered ENFJ for a while and then INFJ I’m curious to know what the most popular career choices are for other Infjs and what other INFJ’s enjoy doing Archived post. And yes, mind you, I have read about the functions and after thoroug consideration, I made the conclusion that INFJ (Ni, Fe, Ti, Se) fits me well. i could be talking to a person the whole day and still not feel a thing but i rarely connect with anyone. i’m even more “detached” than your average infj. I have started to doubt if I'm actually an INFJ or I have some different personality typing. I think they can complement each other well in this way. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Then the INTP sees the temporary cold side to an INFJ, and the INFJ sees the temporary warm side to an INTP, and they like each other again. thank you. He didn’t find my mom until he was in his early 30s, and she is an ISTJ-A. You can tell when they speak. I too am home with my houseplants and my guitar; my INFJ is home with his art projects and his guitar. I’m more comfortable with NF than NT. That's why we are sometimes too agreeable and socially anxious. Fear not, they will come find you in no longer than 2 hours. I have never felt so connected and understood by a person. INFJ 4 would love 5 partner (since Fe and 4 kinda balance each other, 5 becomes a desired function). What i'm really looking for is actually insight into how ENFP's might interact and experience the world and others, compared to INFJ's. So, he started taking me up and showing me around. But if an INFJ in this sub says, "People always comment on my eyes and how intense they are. So if you are one, then the good news is, you made the team! Congrats! The bad news is, you are the kicker. Im here to inform you, the us army, most ESPECIALLY lower enlisted, active duty, entry level jobs like infantry, truck driver, rigger, cook etc. Most of my friends are ENFP. Like Plato’s cave. r/infj A chip A close button. Sometimes I'm talking to people and something distracts me or I focus more on my thoughts and end up saying stuff without… I am currently in a relationship with another INFJ (I am INFJ), and it has been the most incredible relationship I have ever had with anyone else in my life. In an evolutionary perspective it makes sense for infj to be rare because out of all types, the infj function set up wouldn’t be beneficial for natural world duties. If you know one, you know the other. They feel detached from these images. I'm a dreamer constantly and I have some strong introverted intuition and perception but the thing was I ignored it. I don't really want to read yet another text-book definition with touchyfeely words like all those test website give. I used to love to watch Batman the Animated Series when I was young. Since we so rarely feel motivated to get out of our cerebral space except when the mood randomly strikes us on our own internal time, it is even rarer that both INTJ and INFJ are feeling that motivation at the same time. For instance one of the odd traits that infj apperantly have is we can often not feel pain. Meaning that I'd tend to stick with my own core/principal/code, follow by a series of strategic decision-making, based on the experience from the past. Get app Get the Advertise on Reddit; Shop Collectible Avatars; Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now I enjoy the fact that my business provides for me financially and my disability work makes me feel like im making a positive contribution. They want to know INFJ. So, I am an INFJ female who is currently dating male ENTJ (we are in our mid twenties). It correlates to the neuroticism category of OCEAN and has 0 relevance to your type. When I was looking at the MBTI compatibility chart, I noticed there were only INFJ, INTJ and INFP as potential partners left. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. Sometimes it’s difficult to make room for the INFJ’s feeling side. Now I'm more careful on who talk to and trust my intuition and perception. This is where the J component hits the ground. The big difference is most INFJs try to be liked, INFP rarely do. was an INFJ bc she's good at reading people *imo*, friendly, bothered by people being rude in a way that almost reminds me of Fe, etc. I've been with her for 10 years, and she is my everything. An extroverted person gets energized and recharged by socializing & interacting with others. I have a finance degree, and I HATED accounting classes. or looking at blindspots. I But then when the INFJ finds out the INTP is truly more "cold" the deeper you go (and vice versa for the INFJ), confusion hits again and they dislike each other on the next layer. Murder on the Orient Express by Agatha Christie (some sources say she's an INFJ and I loved the book because of how ppl focused it was, the twist was really good IMO). It feels like an adventure buddy mixed in with some romance. And im uncomfortable when people start probing my thoughts and asking questions. I probably shouldnt be laughing when ive been giving advice out to so many as an isfj. Their detachment does not come from the objectification or externalization of these thoughts. Thinking big picture as we do best, in the US, 93% of people are metabolically unhealthy (meaning at least 1 of these 5 biomarkers out of range — waist circumference > 35 in (f) or > 40 in (m), high blood pressure > 130/85, triglycerides > 150 mg/dL, fasting glucose > 100 mg/dL, HDL cholesterol < 40 mg/dL). 221 votes, 485 comments. The INFJ can be more open about their feelings and the ISFP is more open about thinking when they're upset, stressed, or angry. The ISFJ adores the INFJ and listens kindly and with interest to all the big ideas coming from the INFJ while handling many practical details for him. I'm driven to always do my best at my job, but it was literally impossible to give my best work and give the required numbers. i feel like my fe isn’t as developed, so i usually come off as “cold”. Check the r/INTJ rules and the FAQ before posting. In my experience INFJ males have a wistful, melancholic aura to them. I know lots of pilots and the good ones all share those traits. Plus, if you find the right INFJ and they have similar goals to the ENTJ, they'll be unstoppable (shared organization because of Judging preference). New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. I’m dating an INFJ now and she is very in love with me, as I her. Going to take the ASTB, prepare for OCS, and go through MEPS. Dude xd just found out its more likely im infj. I'm a Male ISFP married to an INFJ for 8 years. So I've been looking up guides about which careers would best suit the INFJ personality, and have settled on four that I would consider my "dream jobs": Therapist: Any type of counseling job is the best match for the INFJ, with our love of one-on-one relationships, meaning, listening, and offering help. Currently working (slowly) on the redo of my laundry room. I worked a government job for five years. Of course that is only one example but I have others. Being an INFJ (or any other type) should not be confused with mental health issues. To me, it has really opened my eyes to the SP types. Nothing in life happens without other people's involvement. Seeing yourself as an introvert and an intuitive and a feeler doesn't mean you're an INFJ. They can both do the support process for the dominant function of the other, using their own dominant function. And INFJ usually don’t contact or get to know others first. Sorry for the long post, but I think it's prudent to relay as much background as possible to give a more complete picture of the situation. Not INFJ, but Dating is to get an idea of what you do and don’t like. This is so eye opening. The ISFJ is always understanding and accepting when the INFJ is misunderstood in the world. For redditors identifying as or interested in INFJs (Ni-Fe-Ti-Se) as described by MBTI. I think I've tried to handle this situation too INTPishly, and would really appreciate any answers/input/advice from the perspective of another INFJ. I’m an INFJ, my father is a “best of the best” career pilot: Top Gun fighter pilot, commercial captain, etc. Not specific to the introvert/extrovert distinction in particular, but maybe of use. INFJ want to live life harmonically, want to live in an environment that they have more control over. etc as an infj I was focusing mainly on ideas like studying but I realized in the world out there it doenst help. The difference is that INFJs are a bit more practical and grounded. I also couldn't tolerate the work load I guess. INFJ's do not do well living an inauthentic life, so just keep doing what you are doing, and possibly meet a new friend who also is smart. i am a good talker and i can take a dying conversation and give it a life. They’re soft spoken and kind but don’t really mess around, then as you get to know them they start behaving like a goofy INTP with silly jokes and teasing. So we're not all the same. Just like whenever I'm in the emergency/auto-pilot mode, where I'd focus more on getting the situation under control, blocking all the inputs from the outside world, temporary. for me a person with load of emotion (INFJ/gem-can cusp) its goddamn painful no matter what turn to "hermit"-mode for few weeks after years of experience, now i learn, that if they can have happier life without me, then so be it. Whereas many introverts struggle to be there for their friends, you are always willing to help, support, and be there in any way possible - especially when a friend of yours is feeling overwhelmed. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. INFJ is just more on the unique side so I hate to think of you feeling like an outsider in most circumstances. No. That's why I want to primarily focus on the INFP personality. and one likes to dig deeper, to the foundation, so one can unravel every step. Try to make room for big opinions and the occasional passionate rant. ISTJ will also help INFJ improve their Se function because of how grounding and present they are with their life, and INFJ actually notices this and will adapt ISTJ ways for the betterment. In saying that if i was 18 again and had to choose a career it would either be a pilot or something to do with fund management. For INFJ Ni is the first one, and for ENTJ it's the second. Taking into account that the basic NiSe is shared between both types (even though it's presented differently because of the NiTi/NiFi relationship, but that's more subtle), most of the weight of the comparison between the two of them can be found in the auxiliary functions. I'd like to believe that I'll fall in lo Curious if there’s precedent. Programming is detailed, but the logic problem solving is what I really liked. Most Airline Pilots are show off's , ESTP's / ESTJ's , loud mouths full of narccism about how many girls they banged because they are a Pilot. But I think it's very useful to take some kind of lessons at some point, since those will massively improve your pronunciation and conversational abilities, and at some point I think it's useful to learn the finer points of grammar, and Duolingo avoids teaching that to an extent. Another thought…are you smart enough to go for it when your soul mate does actually come along. I'd specifically like to hear your own personal experiences about the INFJ - ENFP interaction. . They are really nice, good people (so rare) they are a true empath. People let their emotions get in the way when provoked, people make up assumptions very quickly, and lastly, I notice most individuals, when asked a question, immediately try to answer said question instead of taking the extra 30 seconds and having an adequate I’ve never met another INFJ except my dad. " Purity seems to be a concept that INFJs fixate on. INFJ has their inner thought as their Ti tertiary funcion. I’m female, INFJ-A, and he is INFJ-T. i’ll try to describe myself the best i can: i often mistype as intj. Find the best careers for an INFJ personality type, plus jobs the INFJ should avoid. He is extremely logical, level-headed and basically does not experience anxiety as most people do. In my opinion there’s always going to be a certain peculiarity, natural maturity and elegance with an INFJ. I enjoy all of them for different reasons but my INFJ is deep and interesting on so many levels. Obviously not the case. And while in this mindset, it can appear as if the infj is on earth as a visitor giving insights to others. Once an INFJ overcomes this insecurity, that anxiety of the unknown is no longer there. I feel the same way. Being an INFJ-A means you are assertive. Therefore we'd expect 3/10,000 heterosexual relationships to be INTP/f + INFJ/m. we both are avoidant attachment style communicators, so communication wasn't exactly a problem for first 6 months until You're not the only one! And I don't automatically think it is a sign if an unhealthy or abusive relationship, all couples have spats. The ESTP can be a total romantic. Ni-fe-ti-se is focused on reveling what is beyond. Sometimes an INFJ doesn’t know how to explain what they think. Hello, INFP here dropping by because I'm not sure how to read an INFJ when it comes to dating. INFJ are all in immediately, and INTJ (at least externally?) move at a snail’s See full list on nerdycreator. It's a trap set by 16p to lure you into their easy-to-use website. I've watch videos on youtube about becoming a pilot, I've read handbooks, and countless article discussing a careers as a pilot. INFJ 1 would be a perfect match for ENFP (althou INFJ 1 is third/fourth common after 4 2 9/5?). Abolitionist literature Fyodor Dostoyevsky (INFJ 4w5) -- 4's being most common among INFJs/INFPs Plato (INFJ 1w9) Jesus/Yahshua (INFJ 1w2) Joseph Conrad (INFJ 5w4) Nathaniel Hawthorne (INFJ 9w1) Hello dear INFJ, I (F40) am in a very new relationship with an INFJ man (30) since very recently. As well, INTJ/INFJ seem to move in reverse. Hello~ i used to be confused as you, but i later realized my Fe’s higher than Fi, and I know this cause i always care what others think and accommodate myself for them. Personally, being a 5w4 INFJ myself, I've found that first off, the 5s natural inclination to avoid emotional demands and expression tends to sort of repress Fe to an extent. Infj type 1w9. i take it that some people already see that as INTPs sometimes can’t help but be skeptical. I do not think I would thrive as a counselor or therapist having to absorb the emotions and problems of multiple clients/patients per day seems like it would knock me out. Im still willing to help of course if u want me to (just pm me if u want). Instead of type 4 enneagram infj im more worried about the just action and whats right or wrong then being understood. Im an infj in the us army. i´ve seen people post these kind of things, questions or observations etc, and wonder why one always assumes everyone is depressed just because they share deeper things. The ENFP brings an INFJ out of their shell and shows them ways to be more open to other people, giving them the benefit of the doubt at least, and the INFJ can give the ENFP encouragement in making and committing to decisions, as well as being more independent in other ways. INFP Hidden Agenda: To be loved, be validated, to share and accepted; INFJ Hidden Agenda: To contribute, to understand and to I tried dating enfp and entp and the experience is quite ugly and filled with misunderstandings. I get tons of cuts on my legs I don't notice (working around the house or mountain biking). I notice that sometimes INTPs will tense up when an INFJ sounds passionate or opinionated. Do I get to keep my INFJ? Yes, probably! INFJs often bond for life, both platonically and romantically! INFJ's are not one to talk about their own feelings. With time and training I've become better at managing stress but as a person I dislike stress and usually anxious about things. I saw it at the grocery store the other day but couldn’t override my auto pilot to stop return the stare across 10 other people and engage. Isfjs snd infj are almost synonymous lol. INTJs can intellectually keep up with a conversation with the INFJ on deep issues. The description of the infj in a social situation doesn't seem to fit, but I tend to wear an "infj mask" due to previous religious beliefs, when I was thought to be kind and nice to everyone. For redditors interested in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), specifically those identifying as or interested in Introverted Sensing Feeling Perceiving persons (ISFP). Contrary to Fi, Ni is a perceiving function. I am very grateful for Ni, especially during interactions. An introverted person with great social skills (that's me) still feels drained from a period of social interaction. infj 5w6 here. In my experience ENTP attract to INFJ, INFJ attract We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. The INFJ is a lot like an INFP with a five point plan of action if you’re looking for a gross oversimplification. We get along really well in terms of intensity of feelings, general sensitivity and intelligence (we are both gifted). Like, by INFJ's therefore process images (and thoughts and ideas) which exist in themselves. You can tell with their Ni-Ti loop, I love them they are my favorite MBTI personality. Not an attack on my fellow INFJs who are woman it is just the truth of reality. Understand what an INFJ needs to be happy at work, and how INFJs perform as leaders. If you're an introvert, and a feeler and an intuitive and a judger, you ARE an INFJ. IU specifically if you know her. I’ve dated some great ladies who weren’t the ‘one’ but have been valuable non the less. Accounting is too detailed for me, too much bean counting and picky exactness. Now both INFJ and INTJ are extremely rare. but the thing is i get along with nearly anyone untill they are just being rude but i rarely connect with anyone. 2&7 is not a good match in my book. I thought I was infj but it it turns out I'm infp. If you're an INFJ type, use this list of recommended jobs to discover a career you'll thrive in. INFJ will To top it off, INFJ models of how people work can completely misfire when it comes to INTP, it's both a source of attraction and insecurity. I've been seeing this guy who is an INFJ and it's been a bit confusing because sometimes he would overanalyse situations or things that i don't think matters at all such as work stuff, a simple hypothetical question or anything related to feelings. Now imagine what what a INFJ ENFJ team would look like. I always wonder why there aren't many forums online, highlighting how well a connection b/w the INFJ & ESFJ can be formed. Out of my INFJ friends I am always the "annoying one" wanting to go try cool things, jump off cliffs, sky dive, and so all sorts of "stupid stuff" that the INFJ thinks has no meaning. 5 9 are "neutral", but function wise it is a good match. 5/10,000 to be INTP/m + INFJ/f, so the odds are that an INTP + INFJ relationship is the latter would be 85%, or phrased differently, for every 2 INTP/f + INFJ/m relationships we have 11 INTP/m + INFJ/f relationships. You’ll get better at controlling it. Both types can talk relatively easily, though they feel like polar opposites. Sadly just never finding myself on the same wavelength as others, as well as my dad. INFJ females will be passive-aggressive when angry: this will manifest in withdrawal, a lack of enthusiasm to engage positively with the INTP and when absolutely triggered, blind rage. However with that said, there can be days where she will wear me out with her conspiracy theories, her third eye blinging stories and taking people the wrong way (especially when it's a family member). I recommend therapy. If i had to guess though ur just reading to far into it. The book thief by Markus Zusak, (this book made me cry so badly in the end, it really had good undertones of how resiliant the human will has to survive as well as How humanity We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. The opposite is true for the INFJ: The INFJ has Ni as dominant function and uses Fe to support Ni. 177K subscribers in the infj community. So the infj-infj relationship is the most ideal. Most people I observe never contemplate thinking before saying/doing. Some examples that come to mind, which helped me realize this, include Fleet Foxes' Robin Pecknold, who creates a very specific style of folk music, centered around a desire to reconnect with something honest and real, purifying the product of his creative process until it accesses this ideal. Personally I am an Airline Pilot which is something an INFJ would not do because of the demand of stress of the job, working with different people without getting offended by their different personalities. Related: All About the INFJ Personality Type. The INFJ has Ti as tertiary function and Se as infirior. we were from very different socio-economic classes, had different tastes but also bonded on lots of things. You are frequently there for people. Looking at the cognitive functions, it's because INFJ and ENTJ share Ni. though in my case we majorly trauma bonded. INFJ's are among the rarest personality type, if not the most rare. Some helpful things I learned in therapy were to 1) notice my anger when it happens. If the INFJ has a habit of mind reading, prepare to be punished for things you didn't do wrong and defend against things you never said or meant. In a sense, the INFP wants to see the Platonic form of the INFJ's feeling, but the INFJ insists that the mere appearances of their feeling are what really matter -- the INFP wants the INFJ to reveal how they do their magic tricks, but the INFJ sees that as defeating the point of the magic trick -- to entertain and delight the audience. Loyalty grows alongside trust with an INFJ, we trust slowly, and sometimes it can shatter with one wrong action, but there comes a certain point that I think an INFJ can hold onto that trust when they're wronged by the ones they've let close because they're loyal, even though we can be quick to condemn relationships over one incident. A couple years ago I started subconsciously/sometimes consciously confronting arguments with my husband as if I were chaneling what I'd think he would say if he were me (his approach is on the offense, deflecting, minimizing, being selfish, and gas ligh[ting INTJ has their inner feeling as a result of their Fi tertiary funcion. Attracts mostly I'm considering my career and major options in film, and was wondering if any infjs studying/working in the field had any input. Yup!!! My home is my safe place, my comfy place and my drama-free zone!!! I live alone (widowed) with 4 cats and am retired. The people, the ideas, the development and the wellbeing of others. In many ways it does feel like it. 11 votes, 18 comments. INFJ Main Concerns: The meaning of the external world, to comprehend, to add, to give and progress. INFJ's are going to stress about time more and get upset when new information comes at them they weren't expecting. So the possibility should be higher than between other types and INFJ. Well sorry about that. com For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. Just check out the success for INFJ woman with INTJ men vs INTJ Woman with INFJ men, no question both are a good pairing but the natural connection for INFJ woman with INTJ me much more naturally easy. My God. I realized that being active is important and taking care of my needs in any area like health, relation, finance, spiritual . Si dominants don’t see Ni dominants as civilized. But if you follow the theory of big five, there are solid evidence that we are better suited for people who have similar traits. Women's rights literature. INFJ knows hows to integrate themselves in a normal social setting, and the ISFP can be strong and direct in a tenser social setting. ENTP start making a relationship with INFJ. I understand him deeply and I am ready to love him like he will never be loved in his life! INFJ. Well I'm an infj 6w5 and I think it's okay, mbti and ennegram isn't everything about someone's personality and everyone is unique we don't have the same way of thinking or the same environment that we live in and the same problems that change and develop us so yes i think any combination between any mbti and ennegram is possible Welcome to r/Schizoid! Schizoid personality disorder (often abbreviated as SPD or SzPD) is a personality disorder characterized by a lack of interest in social relationships, a tendency toward a solitary or sheltered lifestyle, secretiveness, emotional coldness, detachment and apathy. The person who drastically reshapes nearly everyone's life is a committed sexual and life partner. Those characteristics sound very familiar for a happily married ISFJ/INFJ pair I know. You know what will hurt them the most, and the 1 in you will want to do exactly that. Well, it's very easy for INFJs to bond with INTJ/INTP/INFPs, the first friend i made after 7 years if isolation was an INTJ. He was in Heaven and it was so fun watching him watch the pilot and ask all these questions and be SO excited. 100%. There were some f**ked up people in my battery (company), and thankfully they were from another detachment (gun). though this might be because of my high ti, but it’s a pretty common trait among infj 5w6s. My brother always thought I was her favorite and my other two children thinks my INFJ son is mine. This means that there's a mental sync that happens. This goes for dress one as well. I wanna be more infj though. Then a day or two ago I was complaining to my dad about feeling unfulfilled and bored, he also suggested I would make an great pilot. Studying the functions, people with same type and enneagram, and reading many INFx descriptions had helped me a lot, and i used to like reading these type of stuff where it tells you what each type does in certain I started my pilot packet (paperwork) to get going. what counts are "real" things like having a good friend to talk, or enjoying time with or having good 100% true from what I see from observing an INFJ mistyped into INFP. An INFP is less likely to change for the tribe. I and one of my sons are INFJ. This enables INFJ's to engage directly with their thoughts and ideas using Ti. My mother and I were the same too. In real world contexts, I've found that the single biggest (most obvious, to me at least) distinction between how I (INFJ) process info and how ENFJs process info is that the ENFJ's priority is the power of the shared narrative while mine is the accuracy of perception and information. Does any other fellow INFJ also got the result of an INTP as well? That being said, I 100% know what you’re talking about. They are great, my mother she INFJ and my grandma (father side) she is INFJ, I've siblings and cousin who are INFJ also, over the years I've friends, acquittance, and neighbor who are INFJ's. as an ENFP female i kind of do understand your perspective. Well I think in general INFJs are like comfortable, kinda practical clothing but like at the same time usually neat because we care about looking ok. They care about soceity, groups and the future. But a prominent INFJ who is definitely an INFJ in my opinion, doesn't have this trait. In my experience ENTPs attract to INFJs. I'm an INFJ and I was in a serious relationship with an INFJ for 5 months and a little more than four days ago we broke up, there was no cheating that I know of but the reason for the breakup was because he had several friends and went out alone with them to different places , some asked to sleep at his house and others were always blatantly I thought that my friend who has consistently tested as an ENFP with every single MBTI test and resonates more with Si-inf. I have some infj in me. I am INTJ with a very strong F. i don´t see thinking deeper as depression. The second best would be infj-enfj relationship. Its easy to get a sense of superficiality, fakeness, or just someone truly lost in the matrix just through conversation. Talking about the rarity, in my opinion INFJ-T is less rare than INFJ-A because infjs have this enhanced perception of other people's emotions and we dislike disappointing people naturally. I used to get that mad. Sometimes it gets to the point of being a feeling absurdly impossible to describe, so intense and deep it is. sometimes aspects are unnice. One of the pilots that I deployed with, had a Cessna 172 and was an instructor pilot. I've always loved watching and making animations, cinematic films, and documentaries but Im also worried that my vision and expectations for this career might be too idealistic or delusional. After reading the list of unhealthy characteristics of an INFJ, I identified with #3 (They can be over-sensitive and self-absorbed) and #7 (They struggle with regular binge-eating, over-exercising, or impulsive behaviors), although I don't believe binge-watching Netflix is necessarily a bad thing. I’m INFJ. The hardest part - if you are a true INFJ - is being stuck in a negative environment if you are unlucky enough to be stuck in one. These are the ideas I found so far, to make the INFP and INFJ relationship work (from the perspective of an INFJ): Duolingo is a great start for most people, if it supports your target language. But because ISFJs think with a child’s mind an INFJ being themselves and healthy is insanity to an Si dominant type. Meanwhile we'd expect 16. I just started my first semester of college as a pre-nursing major, but I’m starting to doubt my choice and I want to see… INFJ asks ESTP questions about things that ESTP surprisingly enjoys talking about. Also an INTJ 1w9 could be more in alignment with an INFJ 1w9. So basically, strictly speaking about the personality type (not including other factors), INFJ's are on the normal spectrum. If that doesnt sound like an oxymoron to you, its likely because you arnt familiar with the demographic the us army typically attracts in recent decades. I was drawn to him from the first time we met and I honestly knew from the beginning that I was gonna fall in love with him pretty quickly. Though ESPFs are the complete opposite of us in a literal sense. I couldn't stomach the politics. I think I wrote this more as a vent rather than a thoughtful post. If not, oh well. honestly i haven't ever connected with INFJ females craving clarity and certainty will do well to remember this point – heuristic: if in doubt, swallow your ego and ask. I currently work a job (a Pilot) which comes with a lot of stress , time changes and life of many people in my hand. "The Myers–Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) is an introspective self-report questionnaire indicating differing psychological preferences in how people perceive the world and make decisions. Aiming for Navy fighter pilot. Feelings can feel kind of cliche. My partner (ISTJ- which is an amazing combination for us. But back to the point INFJ ๐ฏ vibes good and bad but definitely worth it Aug 18, 2024 ยท Finding the best INFJ career matches involves taking into consideration this personality type's unique skills and interests. Don't buy into the fake competition that people are setting you up to participate in. I worked as a computer programmer and really liked it. Anywho, I'm an ESFP, and I totally get that my personality type isn't everyone's cup of tea. i will be the one take the pain anyday anytime, rather the one i love Are your priorities in life set? Are you taking steps daily so that your future self can be supported in the major areas of your life? Do you have some sort of purpose that motivates you to get up in the morning, that gives you meaning and makes you feel good and like you're contributing to the world? This. For me, I developed my Ti before my Fe really became conscious. So, I just described pros and cons for this pairing. Leo Tolstoy (INFJ 1w9) Mary Wollstonecroft (INFJ 1w2). I think that person will be INFJ and maybe my person. I might also be more focused on optimizing the The INFJ is very similar in that they also live in a world of possibilities and ideals. This career path is a common recommendation for INFJ types, but I can't say I agree. While the other side feels alive and that all their path was even more rewarded just for that "match", and the infj is, in a twisted angle, valued for the excitement and posing "a worthy adversary" of the other side's own ego; the INFJ will be tense and juggling all possibilities and risks, with immense concern for everyone, very sure this I resonate with a lot of what you said above (currently trying to date a broken INFJ), and definitely am an introverted extrovert, to the point where I’ve become a homebody except for select things or people I enjoy. From the most common to the least common INFJ gut type: Gut type 1 typically makes you go cold, incisive, and you may take some precise steps to really hurt the other guy. I do like advising the few people I have close relationships with, but it is EXHAUSTING. Otherwise, if you are a true INFJ, your self awareness is something that will exist regardless of how your conscious mind operates because the INFJ mind is an extremely predictive one that was repeatedly iterated into a style of subconscious processing that doesn't stop even if you question it or think differently with the other portions of INTJ 4w5 can be more in touch with their feelings and probably resonate well with an INFJ 4w5, a common enneagram for INFJ/INFP. The INFJ does cute gestures of affection as well. I tried to discern if I'm an infj or intj but articles who try to differentiate the two brought even more confusion, since I can identify with parts from both. And I do think their is a bit of unfairness here sometimes. . Frederick Douglass (INFJ 6w5). Just a guess though ISTJ will help INFJ by inspiring the INFJ to take action in their life through logical decision making, rather than loathing about it emotionally. If you put yourself in their place, it’s like we INFJ find it difficult to share our inner most thought because it is so internalized and we are afraid to express in a way that it could be misunderstood. In one sense, I feel like I "record" movement patterns to muscle memory, so for example if I'm going somewhere I might follow a route without thinking about it and forget to pick something up along the way, or sometimes I don't really pay attention to the environment and trip over a fallen branch in the way. If you fit the letters of INFJ, you will also have the function stack of an INFJ, because they are analogous to each other. vkrn ktkucj pomtzh fsrj sqyat rtkto pqbuqh ouqgp odrbqj lvbgmnu
